It's a PTSD case. This patient's having serious anxiety and sleep disorders.
Perhaps you can ask her to write a letter to herself.
If she's willing to talk about her accident
then she can face her pain from the past.
Sounds like a good idea.
For some reason
I think you're especially concerned about this patient.
Is Jia Wei sick?
When he fell sick before
he never went to see the doctor or take medicine.
He would only drink the hot cola drink that I made.
What kind of a friend is he?
He's a friend that I want to introduce you to.
I don't know how you managed to tell Xiao Tong about the cola drink
but I don't want our past to hurt another person.
- That's my biggest baseline. - I'll treat you to a feast on Friday.
The restaurant will be my place
and my mom will be the cook.
Meet the parents?
It'll decide whether her parents will give you the green light.
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[Murphy's Law Of Love]
Episode 12
Jia Wei, here you are.
I have to go now.
Is Zhi Yu going to come tomorrow?
She will come here before she goes to work.
But something suddenly came up
so I don't think I can take her to the studio.
Zhi Yu can take my car if she wants.
That's okay, she's still too scared to drive.
I'll get my colleague to give her a lift.
- I'm going. - Okay, bye.
Bye.
Since when was Zhi Yu too scared to drive?
It's been too long since the four of us caught up with one another.
Look at Zhi Yu.
She seems to be hiding a lot of things from us.
Let's not think about it too much.
Jia Wei's already decided to meet his girlfriend's parents.
He even called me yesterday and asked for my advice.
Just take it easy.
All right, I'll give you some tips to please your future in-laws.
Xiao Ling's dad didn't really like me before...
- Xiao Ling, are you okay? - Xiao Ling.
- Wait, I'll get the doctor. - Xiao Ling.
Excuse me, doctor, there's something wrong with a patient.
- Get her attending doctor. - Okay.
- The doctor is here. - Does she want to throw up?
- When did it start? - Just now.
- Is the pain constant? - I don't know.
That's okay, let me check.
Doctor Du, I'll take care of it.
- Excuse me, sir, please step aside. - I'm sorry.
Don't worry, leave it with her doctor.
Thank you.
Jia Wei, you better go first.
I'll stay here with her.
Don't worry, I'll keep you posted.
- Look after her. - Okay.
- I'm going. - Okay.
Are you okay?
Sorry that I had to ask for your help so suddenly.
Not at all, I was just doing my job.
Anyway, Zhi Yu has also asked me
to keep an eye on Miss Xu's condition.
You also know Zhi Yu?
I'm her attending doctor.
Attending doctor?
What's wrong with Zhi Yu?
- She... - Doctor Du.
Can you tell me about Miss Xu's condition just now?
Okay.
The gradual worsening of her anxiety symptoms
might have something to do with the immense pressure from her job.
Want one?
- Thank you. - Don't touch it.
What's with the frown?
Is it work again?
I got this from my ex-colleague at the hospital.
They asked me to have a look at this patient's problem
because they reckon the cause of this PTSD case
is directly related to her relationship problems.
Hold this.
Just take it.
Despite having gone through six months of continuous treatment
the patient still occasionally shows symptoms from her past trauma
including serious emotional reactions, sleep disorders
as well as inability to concentrate?
It must have been quite a nightmare for this person.
PTSD cases are especially difficult to cure
because they're usually realized after all physical injuries have healed.
This patient was found to have long-term anxiety problems
and is now too scared to drive a car.
Too scared to drive?
Have one.
Actually, based on clinical studies
this is very common in cases involving major car accidents.
But what makes this patient's situation more difficult
is that she didn't tell anyone about her accident.
Not even her boyfriend.
Recently, she seems to be refusing taking further treatment
because of some relationship problems.
If it's because of her relationship problems
then why don't you just ask her boyfriend to help her?
Yeah, it sounds like a good idea.
The best foundation for psychiatric treatment is support from society
as well as stable relationships with family and friends.
So perhaps her boyfriend is a key factor in solving her problem.
That's a great recommendation.
If this patient can really get better
then it'll also be your credit.
I'd like to thank you in advance on her behalf.
This case has been troubling me for the last few days.
I must have forgotten how to be a psychiatrist already.
My ex-colleague even asked if I want to go back and work at the hospital.
Of course not.
Why not?
Because...
Since my agency has a lot of joint cases with your company
you should be there to handle them.
If you go back to the hospital
what's going to happen to those fans who put their trust in Dr. Love?
I think you just want me to work from across the road
so we can have lunch together, right?
Of course, that's also very important.
But...
I thought you said you wanted to look after me and Polo.
How are you going to do that if you work so far away?
Okay, since I've just fed you fruit
I better go and feed Polo now.
Polo.
Polo, it's time for dinner.
Come on, come here.
Polo, good boy.
Polo, you're both good boys.
Come here.
What do you want?
Polo.
I was talking to Polo, not you.
Ji Jia Wei.
Polo, you went over as soon as she shook her bracelet.
But both of you actually came over when I said 'come here.'
Polo, just ignore him.
Let's read this together.
Let's read it together.
Okay, look over there.
Lean against here.
Okay.
Good.
Zhi Yu, drive the car forward a little.
I want to take a shot of you driving.
I'm sorry, Benny.
Zhi Yu can't drive.
We're not hitting the road.
- She just needs to go forward. - But...
Okay, but I don't think I can tell the difference
between the brake and the accelerator.
Would that be a problem?
Forget it, just pose in the driver seat.
I'll just take a few shots.
Okay.
I'm sorry, Zhi Yu's not feeling well.
- Can we take a break? - Okay, let's take ten minutes.
Zhi Yu, are you okay?
Don't look at your watch.
Don't be lovey-dovey.
Don't call her madam.
The present should be moderately priced.
Remember to flatter them.
Should I really trust him?
What if it's one of Xi Men's tricks?
Would I be an idiot if I believed in these ridiculous tips?
I'm sure I can still handle it even if I don't follow these rules.
Mad...
Hello, Madam.
Don't call her 'madam.'
No, what I mean is
hello, Auntie.
Here you are, Ji Jia Wei.
Why didn't you answer the door?
Don't be so lovey-dovey.
Please accept this gift from me.
You really shouldn't have.
It's bird's nest.
- It must be really expensive. - No, not at all.
The present may be important
but it shouldn't be too expensive or too cheap.
But...
it's not really that cheap either.
What he means is it's the thought that counts and not the price, right?
Yes, that's exactly what I mean.
Come on, come inside.
Ji Jia Wei.
You didn't read the five golden rules for meeting the parents, did you?
Five...
What golden rules?
- I haven't heard about it at all. - Really?
What's this?
Why are you giving it to me? It's not mine.
Really?
What are you doing?
Hey, my mom made them herself. So I think you better put them on.
Hey.
Your home's deco's quite special.
People often say
a mother's character is usually reflected in the style of her living room.
Since my mom loves the country style my dad doesn't really have a say in it.
- Here, have some fruit. - Thank you.
I can help myself.
Sit down, you're the guest after all.
Okay.
Thank you.
The tea...
It's still hot.
Are you okay?
There's only one word to describe Boss's flattering ability.
Hopeless.
He'd be lucky if he doesn't end up offending other people.
I'm fine, it's not that hot at all.
The tea was actually really nice
and had a sweet aroma.
I heard you run a divorce agency
and work on the same street as Xiao Tong.
That's right.
So what about your family?
Do you have any brothers or sisters?
Hey, Mom.
You sound like you're interrogating a criminal.
What's the matter?
Why can't I ask him?
That's okay, of course you can.
My dad has his own business
and I'm his only son, so I don't have any brothers or sisters.
Only son?
Then what about your mom?
Mom.
What now?
How come I can't ask him anything?
Actually my mom already left us when I was very young.
So I don't know where she is or what she's doing now.
But it's okay.
I haven't given up.
I'll just keep waiting and hope that she'll come back one day.
Darling.
Since we've got a guest with us
why don't we have a drink?
Do we have beer?
You can go and get some. Dinner will be ready soon.
- I'll go and get the beer. - I'll go with you.
- I can go as well. - It's okay, you can wait at home.
Let's go.
Come on.
No matter how old a man gets
as long as his daughter brings her boyfriend home
he still gets very upset.
I'm sorry.
If his daughter's heart gets broken by this guy in future
then he'd get even more upset.
I won't let that happen.
Young lad.
Don't be so certain.
Papa Guan.
Here you go.
But I thought...
Xiao Qing is already sold it at the auction.
I especially brought this to return to Mama Guan today.
When I first met Xiao Tong
I bought this brooch at the auction.
That day...
was when I met her for the first time.
She told me the story behind this brooch.
The kind of love and warmth that exist in your family
is something that I've never felt before.
The best quality of that child is her thoughtfulness.
Especially when it comes to people that she cares about.
She's always so patient when it comes to being a good listener.
She'd listen to all sorts of problems and complaints.
But I wish she can actually treat herself a little better
rather than just being kind to other people.
I'm not being biased because I'm her father.
It's because she's someone who would never complain.
That's why I would hate to see her get hurt.
She is someone who deserves all the love in the world.
I finally understand
why she's able to give people warmth stability and security
by just looking at them.
I guess the fact that she's grown up in such a loving family
has made her such a unique person.
If you're really serious about Xiao Tong...
then make sure you remember everything that I said today.
I will.
Papa Guan.
Please give this brooch back to Mama Guan for me.
Okay, she'll be very happy about it.
Do you normally drink beer?
Mama Guan is such a great cook.
How come you didn't inherit any of her cooking genes at all?
My mom is taking classes at Zi Yan's cooking school.
If you really like the food then maybe I can go as well.
I've already told you many times.
You can only learn from me.
Not that stubble guy again. Can't she stop mentioning his name?
How did everything go when you went to buy beer with my dad?
He just wanted to remind me of something.
But it's a man-to-man thing, so I can't tell you.
But don't worry.
I'm not just full of words.
I'll prove it with action.
When you said
a mother's character is reflected by the style of her living room
it made me suddenly want to...
to see what my mom's living room would look like.
I didn't mean to make you upset
by asking you to come to my place today.
You silly girl.
I should thank you for introducing me to your parents.
I've always yearned for such a loving family.
This is how a family should be.
Also...
my family...
includes you as well.
Drive safely.
When you go and see Xiao Ling at the hospital tomorrow
don't forget to give that notebook to Doctor Li for me.
Okay.
Oh yeah, here you go.
My mom cooked some chicken soup for you.
Make sure you finish it tonight.
Okay.
Hey.
Just say whatever you want to say.
Otherwise, we'll keep saying goodbye until tomorrow morning.
Well... I know how much effort you've put into preparing for today's lunch.
So...
Hey.
Just say whatever you want to say.
Otherwise, we'll keep saying goodbye until tomorrow morning.
Well... I know how much effort you've put into preparing for today's lunch.
So...
Thank you.
Hey, Guan Xiao Tong.
Oh yeah, don't forget about tomorrow's radio show.
I'll see you on air.
You had a breakdown at a photo shoot?
If you keep dragging on like this, then it'll even impact on your job.
I'll make a consultation appointment with Doctor Li for tomorrow.
Make sure you turn up.
- I... - You promised me.
You said you would come to see her after you finish your shoot.
Okay.
Oh yeah, write a letter to yourself when you get home.
It's part of your treatment.
When you get home, write a letter to yourself
and talk about what happened a year ago.
Until you're willing to face it
we won't be able to solve your problem.
Guan Xiao Tong, fix your hair up.
You better touch up your makeup.
What's the point? It's a radio show, not a TV show.
- Nobody will see her. - What do you know?
Once the show goes on air
our blog and members will definitely increase in numbers.
Then Dr. Love will become I Meet You's living billboard.
So she must look her best at all times.
Get what I mean?
- Don't be so exaggerating. - No, I'm not.
Hi, Xiao Cao.
Yeah, we're doing a show with Dr. Love.
I'm just following my boss's order.
So many people think they can suddenly become famous easily nowadays.
Don't you reckon?
I've got to go now, talk to you later.
Hello, Miss Guan.
I'm Producer Liu from Heart To Heart.
Hello, Producer Liu.
I didn't expect Dr. Love to be so young and pretty in person.
I've been your fan for a long time.
Good luck with the show today.
Sure, I'll do my best.
I have to go now.
- Have some tea to soothe your throat. - Thank you.
Guan Xiao Tong, you're amazing.
Even their producer's your fan.
I must keep an eye on our blog
and watch our member numbers grow.
Yeah, I can't wait to see that.
I'm so excited.
Hello?
Hi, Dad.
Still another ten minutes.
Okay.
Got it.
You can clean the floor later.
Xiao Tong's show's about to start.
What's all the big fuss about a radio show?
Here it goes.
Stop looking at me, I'm just taking a break.
Hello, everyone.
Thank you for listening to Pop Radio.
- Let's listen to this today. - Welcome to Heart To Heart.
I'm your host DJ, Eva.
Today we've invited the renowned Dr. Love
Guan Xiao Tong
to share her love story with us.
Hello, everyone, I'm Guan Xiao Tong.
Excuse me, can you tell me where Dr. Li Cheng Yao's room is?
- Down the hallway and turn right. - Thank you.
Even if you're a family of the patient
you still need the doctor's approval before you can go in.
It's you?
I just want to return these notes to Dr. Li for my friend.
Okay, just give it to me.
I can pass it on to Dr. Li for you.
Thank you.
Goodbye.
Oh yeah.
Last time, you told me
you're Zhi Yu's attending doctor, right?
Yes.
So the person who just walked in
was it Zhi Yu?
I'm sorry, but I can't tell you.
PTSD cases are especially difficult to treat
because they're usually realized after all physical injuries have healed.
This patient is now too scared to drive a car.
Since when was Zhi Yu too scared to drive?
She didn't tell anyone about her accident.
Not even her boyfriend.
Recently, she seems to be refusing taking further treatment
because of some relationship problems.
So the person who just walked in
was it Zhi Yu?
I'm sorry, but I can't tell you.
'Despite having gone through six months of continuous treatment'
'the patient is still showing symptoms from her past trauma'
'including serious emotional reactions, sleep disorders'
'as well as inability to concentrate?'
It must have been quite a nightmare for this person.
My own relationship is actually just like everyone else's.
Just like how doctors will also get sick.
So there were also times when I didn't know what to do.
If I ask you to give our audience
who are about to get into a relationship
an important piece of advice
what kind of a suggestion would you give them?
Courage.
The courage to do the unimaginable.
Not 4G?
We've all heard your 4G theory before.
My 4G theory mainly focuses on the selection criteria.
Because prior to starting a relationship
people would usually establish some criteria.
So my 4G theory
is basically a reference for people who are looking for the right person.
But even though there are criteria
sometimes fate can also play an important part.
After all, love isn't just a simple deal.
So once fate falls upon you
your age, height and even nationality will no longer be a problem.
Some people might not be a 4G man at all.
But that's because they haven't met the right person yet.
Once they meet the right person
they might still be willing to do anything for the other person.
I wonder if our audience realizes what she means.
I can actually see pink bubbles floating around her right now.
Let's begin.
Read out the letter
just as you're reading a script.
It's really not that difficult.
To...
the He Zhi Yu
who used to be
very happy a year ago.
I...
actually still haven't forgotten about you...
as well as...
all the best memories from a year ago.
The days...
when you still had Jia Wei with you.
During the years
when you only had work on your mind
you only realized he's always been there waiting for you
after you got hurt...
or got too tired.
He always had a smile on his face
and never complained at all.
Love is about making compromises.
Because once you become too self-centered you tend to neglect your partner.
In order to be happy
both people must realize
how important it is to treasure one another.
I'm sure you never expected...
that your relationship...
would become like this.
Sometimes...
life is not so lucky.
If...
I had not hesitated back then...
then things...
might have turned out differently between you and Jia Wei.
So a past failure can actually help you move on
and meet someone even better.
If you're feeling unhappy now
then you better move on
just like I did.
I guess I'll never find a relationship that's as pure and beautiful as ours again.
Up until this day
I would still think to myself...
that if I just stay where I am
then when he turns around...
and looks back...
perhaps he can find me.
You can't just walk in like that.
In the notes that I just gave you
the patient
is Zhi Yu, right?
You better let me go in
if this has something to do with me.
Let's just leave it at that for today.
As for what happened that day...
I don't want to talk about it.
But things are just starting to get better.
Do you think we can keep going?
Perhaps
the fact that so many things have happened so unpredictably
has taught me to treasure everything that's important to me.
That day...
when I saw Jia Wei again
that's what he said to me.
He was right.
Perhaps...
after my...
car accident...
I've finally learned my lesson.
Before my accident happened
I hung up on his calls.
Although I knew what he had wanted
but that's how I was like.
I always wanted him to tolerate my willfulness.
Even when he had planned to propose to me
I still had to keep him waiting
until I finished work at midnight.
After I hung up on him...
when I thought about the look of disappointment on his face
I regretted it straightaway.
But...
even though I made a U-turn to go back to him
it was still too late.
Even though happiness was so close to me...
yet I couldn't go back to him again.
The moment when the accident happened
such a feeling
was much more painful than my physical pain.
So how did you feel
during your year-long physiotherapy?
Very painful.
But the hardest thing
was when I realized
that I've lost all confidence in living my old life
and getting back the love that was once mine.
Back then, I thought
that perhaps he would wait for me
and accept me as I was.
But as soon as he answered my call
I couldn't say anything at all.
Zhi Yu.
Zhi Yu, is that you?
Say something.
At that time...
I didn't know when my pain would ever end.
That's why...
I didn't tell him about it at all
because I didn't want his sympathy.
I'm scared that...
this is how I'm going to be like for the rest of my life.
If I keep up with my physiotherapy and treatment
perhaps my physical condition will eventually improve.
But if I have to forget about him...
I really don't think...
I'll ever be able to do that.
So...
I really don't think there is a need to continue my treatment.
Because...
I'll never be who I was a year ago.
Welcome back to Pop Radio.
I'm sure all of you are very eager to find out
what kind of a man is able to conquer Dr. Love.
So we'll now make a call to Guan Xiao Tong's boyfriend
and assign him his mission.
Due to a connection problem
we're still unable to reach him.
Our staff will keep trying to call him
while Guan Xiao Tong shares with us some of her funny encounters at work.
What the hell is going on?
Why can't you get through to him?
This is a live show.
You should have gotten in touch with him before the start of the show.
Don't just stand there!
What's the matter with Ji Jia Wei?
He was also late for our Hot Pick Event last time.
Hopefully, he'll get a difficult mission
for what he's done to Guan Xiao Tong.
Come on, get your phone and try to call him.
This is so annoying.
I heard that your nickname is Murphy Guan.
Can you tell us why you have such a funny nickname?
It's a bit like what's happening to me right now...
- What are you doing? - I knew it would be a disaster.
You guys can go back first.
I want to wait for a little longer.
That pork chop has obviously become frozen again.
Why would you want to wait for him?
Even Xi Men and Shao Qiang didn't know where he was.
What is the matter with him?
I mean I want to wait for Producer Liu.
I want to apologize to him.
Forget it, Xiao Tong.
Xin Xin and I have done all we could to apologize to him just then.
He's still very mad right now.
Let's wait until he's calmed down.
But it was really my fault.
If he's really mad about it then he can take it out on me.
Guan Xiao Tong, can you not be like this all the time?
I mean it.
It's Mei Zhen.
Boss?
Hello, Boss.
Yeah, it's all under control.
It's a long story.
We'll tell you about it when we get back to the office.
Yeah, okay.
Right away...
Sorry for getting you into trouble.
I'll go back and apologize to the boss.
Don't worry.
Xin Xin and I will take care of her for you.
Be careful on your own.
Don't forget to teach Ji Jia Wei a lesson.
Don't let Producer Liu put you down when you see him.
Okay?
All right, we're going.
Give us a call when you get home, bye.
Then what about this day last year?
Where were you?
What makes you think you can pretend as if nothing's ever happened?
Even though happiness was so close to me
I couldn't go back to him again.
The moment when the accident happened
such a feeling was much more painful than my physical pain.
Even if my proposal had made you want to run away
was it really that hard for you to say a proper goodbye?
I thought he would wait for me
and accept me as I was.
But as soon as he answered my call
I couldn't say anything at all.
Let's just get on with our own lives.
I didn't know when my pain would ever end.
I didn't tell him about it at all
because I didn't want his sympathy.
I'm scared that this is how I'm going to be like for the rest of my life.
Please.
I really wouldn't mind not having you in my life.
It's taken me a lot of courage to stand in front of you again.
Perhaps my accident
has taught me a lesson.
Ji Jia Wei.
Did something happen to you?
Why aren't you answering your phone?
Producer Liu.
I'm really sorry...
Listen.
In the radio industry, every second is important.
No matter how much time you spend on apologizing to me
it still can't make up for it.
Producer Liu, please let me explain.
It's okay if you want to waste your time.
But don't try to waste my time.
Producer Liu.
So that's all you've got.
Luckily, I didn't have too high of an expectation from you.
Aren't you going to step out of your car?
I'm sorry.
I wasn't looking, sorry...
I can give you a chance to apologize.
But before I do that
you'll have to give her a chance to apologize to you.
Miss Guan.
You might appear to be a simple girl but you're actually full of tricks.
How dare you gang up against me?
He's not the boyfriend, is he?
- No... - Hey, boyfriend.
I think you've come a bit too late.
He's not my boyfriend.
He's just my...
You've got two options.
Option one, let her finish what she has to say.
Option two, go to the police station and sort out our problem.
You're crazy.
You...
Producer Liu, I'm very sorry for what happened today.
Is there anything I can do to make up for it?
In our industry, it's not the first time that this has ever happened.
Miss Guan, don't worry about it.
Although you were the cause of the problem
you shouldn't be held totally responsible for it.
Since you're so experienced with this
then you should know it's not her fault that she got stood up, right?
I guess it's just my bad luck.
I never get a say in the kind of guests that we invite.
So it's my bad luck.
Happy now?
I'm really sorry.
Just forget it.
Excuse me, hands off my car, please.
Wait for me here.
I didn't realize it's so late.
How can my phone run out of battery now?
Guan Xiao Tong, I'm sorry.
Xiao Tong.
Thank you for helping me out just now.
Why did you suddenly turn up here?
That's not important.
I just want to know if you're okay.
I'm fine.
I have to go now.
Excuse me, can I help you?
Sorry, my girlfriend is a guest on your show tonight.
- I'm here to see her. - But all our shows have finished.
There's no one inside.
Let me go in and have a look.
Everyone left already.
Thank you.
Hi, Shao Qiang.
Do you know where Ji Jia Wei is right now?
Okay, that's all right.
Hi, Xi Men, it's Guan Xiao Tong.
Do you know where Ji Jia Wei...
Okay, bye.
Hello Yao Yao, did you see the person who dropped of my notes today?
[Murphy's Law Number Nine]
[When you want to find someone, he's nowhere to be seen.]
Since I'm the cause of the problem I should take care of it myself.
I'm only going to say yes until you finally stop frowning.
Dr. Love should be more selective when it comes to her own boyfriend.
You should choose someone who's able to help you.
You should start thinking about yourself
and stop worrying about others.
Compared to the effort you put into chasing after Xiao Tong before
you're totally different now.
Where is Guan Xiao Tong?
She's gone to Xiang Zi Yan's restaurant.
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